Forget plot twists—this book’s drama is all social. Martine’s Hand-book of Etiquette isn't a story in the traditional sense. Instead, it’s a comprehensive manual from 1866 on how to behave 'properly' in Victorian America. Arthur Martine acts as your very stern, very detailed guide through every conceivable social interaction.

The Story

There’s no protagonist, unless it’s you, the nervously well-meaning reader trying not to commit a faux pas. The 'plot' follows a person’s life through the lens of manners: how to introduce people, write letters, dress for events, behave at the dinner table, court a partner, and even how to conduct yourself in church or while traveling. The conflict is the constant, silent battle against embarrassment and social ruin.

Why You Should Read It

It’s a riot. One minute Martine is advising gentlemen to never pick their teeth at the table (sound advice!), and the next he’s detailing the precise number of days you must wait after a funeral before resuming social visits. It holds up a mirror to the immense pressure people felt to conform. Beyond the laughs, it’s a serious historical document. You get a real sense of the values—privacy, respect, self-control—that structured society, for better or worse.

Final Verdict

Perfect for history lovers, fans of quirky old books, or anyone who enjoys reality TV but wishes it was from 1866. It’s not a cover-to-cover read, but a fantastic book to dip into. You’ll come away entertained, slightly horrified, and with a newfound appreciation for the simple joy of wearing sweatpants in public.